Hold him down until you breakdown

There were several topics that sparked my attention this week so far. One of these topics is how people be "holding someone down" who is incarcerated... On Instagram I seen this picture that said "Shout outs to all my exes because they gave me an opportunity to see what a real nigga is" yeah I get that and that's a good thing, that's actually great BUT the person's boyfriend is incarcerated so what good does that make? My friends and I have discussed this topic countless times and we all feel as though we can not go through with that. With me, I think it is more of a mental thing because loving and being in love with someone that you can only see and speak to at scheduled times is going to mentally mess someone up. Being in a situation like this can also have an emotional toll on someone simply because they will only be able to express their love and affection from a distance. If I am with someone, for example married, I would want my husband right beside me every night and I won't be able to have it any way.