what about ...?

They say... "No man should ever have to bury his son" so how about the toddler son who has to watch his father be buried ? What about the toddler son who is present at his father's funeral but yet is still too young to know and understand what's going on ? What about the toddler son who will never get to make new memories with his dad ? What about the toddler son who is not wise enough to know that he will never ever see his dad ever again?